9 June Stop Selling to Everyone: Why You Need to Know Your Real Customer June 9, 2025By Will Strohl | 2 MIN READ When you try to sell to everyone, you end up selling to no one. Learn how to focus your marketing so you're speaking to the right people at the right time. Stop Selling to Everyone: Why You Need to Know Your Real Customer Have you ever walked into a grocery store looking for “just any food”? Of course not. You don’t stand in the middle of the aisle thinking, “I’ll take anything edible!” No, you’re looking for milk, or cheddar cheese, or maybe a specific brand of soda. You’re searching with intent. You have a goal. The same logic applies when you're marketing your business. As someone who’s been in network-based marketing for a decade, I see this mistake all the time: business owners trying to talk to everyone, hoping someone—anyone—will respond. But when you try to sell to everyone, you end up selling to no one. "I Want to Work with Anyone" Is Not a Strategy Let’s say I’m standing in a room with 50 business owners. Sure, I could technically talk to every single one of them. But would I want to? Would they all benefit from what I offer? Would they all value it? Probably not. So instead, I focus on the right people—the ones who are growth-focused. That phrase alone tells me: They’re serious about improving They’re willing to invest They’re likely already frustrated with the status quo When I say, “I help growth-focused business owners,” it acts like a filter. It instantly attracts the people I do want to talk to, and gently repels the ones I don’t. How to Define Your “Milk and Cheese” If you’re in sales or marketing—whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or just getting started—ask yourself these three questions: Who do I actually want to serve? Not who could benefit. Who do you love working with? Who gets the best results with you? How should I talk to them? Speak their language. Use the words they use. Mirror their mindset. If they say “scale,” you say “scale.” If they say “get unstuck,” you say “get unstuck.” Where do they hang out? Are they on LinkedIn or at the local Chamber breakfast? Do they listen to podcasts or read newsletters? Your messaging only works if it shows up in the right place. It’s Not Just About Narrowing—It’s About Resonating You’re not limiting your business when you niche down. You’re clarifying your value. You're saying, “I know exactly who I help and how I help them.” That kind of confidence stands out in every networking event, social post, or sales call. So... Who Are YOU Really Talking To? Take a few minutes today to reflect on your “grocery list.” Are you still hoping for just any customer to walk in the door? Or are you showing up with purpose—clear about who you’re looking for, and why you’re the right choice for them? If you want help getting clarity on who your ideal customer is and how to speak their language, that’s exactly what we do at Upendo Ventures. We don’t just build websites—we help growth-focused businesses build platforms that actually work. Let's Chat! We'd love to work with you. Let's talk about how. Contact Us June 9, 2025By Will Strohl Business, General, Leadership, Personal Branding Business Owner, Customer Persona, Growth-Focused, Lead Generation, Networking, Sales Strategy, Small Business, Target Audience About the Author Will Strohl Founder & CEO Upendo Ventures Overall, Will has nearly 20 years of experience helping website owners become more successful in all areas, including mentoring, website development, marketing, strategy, e-commerce, and more. Please enable JavaScript to view the comments powered by Disqus. blog comments powered by Disqus Related Posts Preparing Your Customers for COVID-19 This really is an unprecedented time we all find ourselves in. 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