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Getting Comfortable with Personalized Marketing: A Simple First Step Toward Authenticity

Getting Comfortable with Personalized Marketing: A Simple First Step Toward Authenticity

Marketing is more personal than ever, and authenticity is your secret weapon. Here are tips to get started!

Here’s an AWESOME tip that can help you build confidence and show there’s a real person behind your brand.

Intro

You’ve probably noticed it already—marketing is getting a lot more personal. That’s not just a trend. As AI continues to evolve, what stands out now more than ever is authenticity.

Meme: Influencer taking selfies everywhere

People are craving connection. They want to know there’s a real person behind the business—not just another AI-generated ad, chatbot, or faceless brand.

But for many small business owners, especially around the Bay Area, getting on camera can feel awkward or even overwhelming. If that sounds like you, you’re not alone—and you don’t need to jump straight into content creation mode.

Here’s a simple, approachable way to build confidence and start showing the world the authentic you.

Start by Talking to Your Friends (Literally)

Forget the lights, camera, and pressure to be “on.” Instead:

  • 👉 Start sending short video messages to your friends.

Meme: Lord of the Rings, Gollum taking a selfie

Seriously. Use whatever you’re already using—WhatsApp, Instagram DMs, Facebook Messenger. Instead of texting, record a quick video and talk like you normally would.

This isn’t about being polished or professional. It’s about getting used to talking to your phone like it’s a person. Like it’s someone you care about. That muscle memory carries over when you eventually talk to your audience.

You’ll start to sound like yourself. Not a presenter. Not a brand. Not a bot.

Just a real, authentic human being. And that’s exactly what today’s social platforms—and your potential customers—are looking for.

Why This Works

When you get comfortable speaking casually and confidently, your content becomes something people actually want to watch. Here’s what happens:

  • You build authenticity without overthinking your “brand voice”
  • You lower the pressure that comes with recording something for the public
  • You sound like a person—not a pitch
  • And most importantly, you show there’s someone real behind your business

As AI-generated content floods feeds, the most powerful way to stand out is to be unmistakably human.

That’s your edge.

Meme: Most Interesting Man in the World

Marketing Is Becoming a Conversation—Are You Part of It?

You don’t need to be an influencer. You don’t need a ring light and a script. But you do need to be present. And that means showing up as yourself.

This simple practice—sending a few casual video messages to people you already know—helps you find your voice. It builds confidence. It helps you show up with authenticity, not automation.

So go ahead. Start talking to your phone like it’s your best friend. Because eventually, it will be.

That’s the tip.

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About the Author

Will StrohlFounder & CEO
Upendo Ventures
Overall, Will has nearly 20 years of experience helping website owners become more successful in all areas, including mentoring, website development, marketing, strategy, e-commerce, and more.

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